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Narcissism and the Martial Arts, why this is so dangerous!

Narcissism and the Martial Arts

Narcissism and the Martial Arts, ego has gone off the rails! If you do not believe me look at the I LOVE ME sites of many martial artists on social media.

 Yes you do need to self promote when you are running a school. It is a personality based business. But there are limits.

Narcissism is a dangerous mental illness.  Lets look at the definitions.

narcissism /när′sĭ-sĭz″əm/

noun

  1. Excessive preoccupation with or admiration of oneself. synonymconceit.
    Similar: conceit
  2. A personality disorder characterized by self-preoccupation, need for admiration, lack of empathy, and unconscious deficits in self-esteem.
  3. Erotic pleasure derived from contemplation or admiration of one's own body or self, especially as a fixation on or a regression to an infantile stage of development.

Narcissism and the Martial Arts

Now as I am writing this I do have one person in mind particularly. But I will not mention names. Just to suffice it to say that because of the nature of social or anti-social media as I call it, it become easy to fall into this trap. 

And I am sure this is done on purpose also. And I also see a lot of people share and pushing this content. An example is some of the stuff of instagram. Images of young girls doing vertical kicks. It looks more like a porn ad. 

Is this the image these martial arts really want to portray? 

Narcissism and the Martial Arts

Narcissism and the Martial Arts is a real thing, and it is bad for the arts, period.  I will get "friend requests" from people who simply wish to build their "friends list" like this is something real?

I stopped taking them. If I send someone a request it is because i want some communicate, not so I look good because I have so many friends I do not know in real life.  Today I take NO requests and delete people all the time. If we have never had some kind of communicate you will be gone.

Narcissism and the Martial Arts

Remember this is a serious mental disorder and you should not play the game. I simply never communicate further is I believe I am dealing with a narcissist. There is no point. They lie so much they believe their own lies. Sounds like the majority of politicians doesn't it?

Martial art training is a personal experience, a selfish end. We do this to improve. It is not a group activity.  I need NO validation on what I am doing from anyone else. My teacher is the except to that statement.

I do not care what the slaves of Facebook say or think.

Narcissism and the Martial Arts in Conclusion

I was recently attacked in a FB group of Tae Kwon Do guys. It upset one of my long time students when he saw this. And of course he told me, and engaged them. Why would I care what a bunch of TKD guys think??

Facebook is not martial arts training. Unless you are a narcissist looking for gratification.

This has been an editorial article called Narcissism and the Martial Arts. This is my opinion only. Agree or disagree all is fine. 


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Art of the Calm Mind, controlling reactions to life.

Art of the Calm Mind

Art of the Calm Mind, the way to see through a world of lies and deception by both sides. Welcome to an important editorial article here are the World Budo Alliance.

Why do I say this?

Because every person has been and is being programmed by the "power that want to be" to have a strong emotional reaction to the things they are bring "told" are happening in the world.

They show you some FAKE video, get some actors to tell stories and tie people up in knots destroying their health and well being. people must develop, must learn the art of the calm mind to survive today. 

Art of the Calm Mind

Someday, like the last few or so I feel like the weight of the world is on my shoulders. There are many people who depend on the decisions I make daily for their lives. And I am OK with this, I chose this path.

However if my mind is not calm, I do not understand the art of the calm mind, I will make bad decisions and these will affect many lives.

The LIES that CNN or other propaganda networks sell stories about war, disease and push a political agenda. So are these things you can fix yourself? Then why do you consume these lies? If it disturbs your peace then you are destroying your immune system, which is what they want. 

Western medicine is about selling drugs, not health!

Art of the Calm Mind

People have been taught to worry. Let's take a look at worry for a moment. There are 2 types of things people worry about. 

1) Things you have control over and can fix
2) Things you have NO control over and cannot fix.

In regard to number one, if you can fix it then why are you worried? Fix it and move on! Mind you then you MUST disciple your mind to take action. But you have been brainwashed, programmed NOT to take action but rather to sit in a chair, consume the lies and drink yourself stupid. Am i wrong? 

Number 2 you have no control over. Therefore worry is totally pointless! They tried to create a world war out of Ukraine, and everything they said about the situation was bullshit. And now Israel is the NEW WWIII propaganda machine.

Can you fix this? Then why are you worried? I promise you 99% of what they are telling you are lies. Because they have ALWAYS lied to the public!

Art of the Calm Mind in Conclusion

Art of the Calm Mind in Conclusion

Take back your mind, disciple your mind. Stop consuming things you do not need, save as much money as you can.

And to those in Canada, you do not need Tim Horton's!

Make your own coffee and put it in a thermos!

Take your LIFE BACK and your MIND BACK. Fix your life, and the hell with the rest! If everyone took care of their own world we would live in a great world. OH, yeah, turn off social media. It is designed to destroy society. Unless you have met the person, shaken their hand, they are a delusion. 


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Defending against Brazilian Jiu Jitsu (BJJ). How to WIN!

Defending against Brazilian Jiu Jitsu.

Defending against Brazilian Jiu Jitsu (BJJ) part 2 of a series on Defending Against Martial Arts by Grand Master Dave Degrouchie. 

In my first part of this 6 part series, titled “Defending Against Martial Arts”, I spoke about how like all things evolve, so does assault and violence.

I will repeat some points in each part of the series to make sure we stay on point.

As mentioned, everyone and their dog has, or can, train in the popular styles of today that rule the MMA world. Many folks have trained in gyms, online, through seminars, books, etc. All of it, is available to everyone now.

Defending against Brazilian Jiu Jitsu

And forget the silly argument of “unless you train in-person with a notable expert, you don’t know…”. Horse shit. True, there are polished aspects you may not attain, but the bulk of understanding and proficiency? Yes, you can get via video, books, and seminars. And many have. Defending against Brazilian Jiu Jitsu continues

My point, is the knowledge is all over the place for the easy taking, MMA has become the go-to validation, for anyone who wants to role play being a tough guy or super hero, and as a result, there are many skilled folks walking the street. Many are nut cases. Today’s thug, is very skilled, and well trained.

It is true, that if you know nothing about an attack or weapon coming at you, you can’t defend against it. If you know nothing about the mechanics of a punch, you will never understand using distance and body positioning to nullify range, and you will be hit, always.

Defending against Brazilian Jiu Jitsu

In order to recognize BJJ when it is being used against you, this article and the ones to come on other styles, will only serve as a validation of points made. It can’t teach you anything by itself. So study. Get your hands on some training material. I recommend a white to purple belt program.

This is where most of the people walking around today are at, or have been at in their training. The brown belts are a bit more rare, don’t know a lot more technique than the purple belts, but are more polished via competition. The black belts, are pretty much a much more polished version of the brown belts in that they have competed often, won often, and can teach winning strategies to others.

Defending against Brazilian Jiu Jitsu.

To say you have to have the understanding of a BJJ black belt to recognize when BJJ is being used against you and to attack it’s success mechanisms is ridiculous. But, you should have been exposed to some degree, to the curriculum from white to purple. Not to the point where you can pass a belt exam. Just to a point where you can connect the dots on what makes it work, coupled with what I am writing here.

Your next step, will be to practice anti-BJJ type of techniques. For example, do not wrestle with the arm coming around your neck from behind to avoid a choke. Rather, turn your face just a bit and notice how close your mouth is to the forearm. Bite. Don’t let go. And so on.

BJJ’s existence and war chest, is all on the ground. If you are standing, they want to take you down. They want to work from the top, they want to stay close to you, and want to limit your ability to move while underneath. They want to achieve a strong position, then apply submission. This would be a choke or joint manipulation of some sort.

Defending against Brazilian Jiu Jitsu.

Should they be on the bottom, they want to make sure you can not gain a stable position, they want to create space between you and them, they want to be very mobile off their back, and they want to attack you based on what you offer as you try and steady yourself, and position yourself.

So, let’s break this up into 3 parts in the article Defending against Brazilian Jiu Jitsu.: The takedown, BJJ on top of you, and BJJ under you. 

Defending against Brazilian Jiu Jitsu

The Takedown: BJJ will want to hit you low, preferably below the hips. The taller you stand, the more effective they will be when they come at your legs to grab and take you off your feet. Don’t stand face to face, and keep your distance. Move to the outsides often. You will need to understand both shooting, and sprawling in order to effectively recognize, and interrupt a skilled BJJ practitioner’s attempt to take you down. This can’t be covered here. Find resources, study, and train.

Defending against Brazilian Jiu Jitsu

BJJ on Top: They will want to be like a 2nd skin when on top. This is because they need to nullify your ability to move when you are on your back. It allows them to transition positions quickly, effectively, and tight. It is from a good tight position, that submissions are launched.

You want to keep them from getting tight. This is done by understanding what is known as “posting”. In brief, posting is where a person’s weight is being supported. When you stand on your two feet, you are posting on your two feet. If you are on top of someone, and your weight is on your hands and knees, then that is where you are posting.

If there is no post, there can be no control of balance or distance. If there is no control of balance and distance, there can not be any effective position, or submission. Don’t wrestle, attack the post points of the person on top of you. Move your hips a lot, use your feet to kick/push their posting knees when they are scrambling on top of you trying to be tight. Push down on their shoulders and push them down towards your feet, stick your fingers in their eyes.

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Distance is your weapon on your back against a skilled BJJ person. When they are on top and you are on your back, do not allow their hands to rest on either side of you any higher than your hips. If they get higher, they are already too tight. Imagine a fence at your hip level. Do let any part of them get past the fence. When they post with their hands on either side of you push at the wrists to cause them to lose that post.

Grab an open hand as they are distracted in the scramble, and break a finger off. They do not train in a way that protects their small joints as they live in a world where that type of thing is not allowed in training, thus never addressed or paid any attention to. Remember: If we do not know about a threat, we can’t know how to defend against it. Their fingers, ears, and eyes, are often unguarded targets. They are not all that aware of those areas as they scramble.

Defending against Brazilian Jiu Jitsu

BJJ On the bottom: The opposite rules apply here. They want to create distance between you and them. They do this by moving their hips and shoulders with great skill. They will want to keep you light and swing their hips out to the sides, or post up on one of their hands fast so that their shoulders are not pinned beneath you. Stay close and heavy, and smash your forehead into their nose often.

Do not post your hands on either side of them at the fence level. They know how to grab and rip the arm right off. Rather, post your hands past their shoulders, they can’t grab well from there. However, be aware of your own posting. If you are putting your weight up there as well, they will shrimp their hips out to the side, and be on your back faster than you can blink.

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This is bad, and even the most skilled BJJ practitioner has major issues dealing with anyone that takes control of their back. Should this happen, don’t wrestle. Keep your focus on one of their arms as that is all you need to control. They need both arms to close a choke on you. The arm you are controlling you will need to break fingers and bite into. Focus on that.

Simple truths: BJJ succeeds by getting you off your feet. Once that is done, it needs to control your movement and the distance between the two of you on the ground. To do so, BJJ relies on controlling distance/mobility, posting, positions and submissions. If you understand what makes distance/mobility work, and posting work, and you can attack those 2 aspects so that they never succeed, there will be no positioning, hence no submissions.

Defending against Brazilian Jiu Jitsu

Reality check: All of this, is not easy. BJJ is F’N intelligent. Practitioners know how to bait you into moving certain ways that you can’t even see, but they can. If you try to out-grapple them, you lose. You don’t know all the shit they do from the ground. And, when you try to out grapple them, you are not noticing mobility, space, posting…..but they are!

Many of their movements are designed to get you to move a certain way in reaction, or post a certain way in reaction. They are chess players. You will need to attack their intelligence as well, and this is done with the shock factor that comes from BANG!!!!, head to the nose or CRACK!!!!, finger bent back….but again, not easy.

Always remember, in combat, fighting fire with fire, almost always results in the better fire winning. Don’t grapple a grappler. Know the signs of grappling, know what makes grappling work, and attack those things. And like any encounter, the longer the fight lasts, the less chance you have of winning as the attacker gets more determined and upset and driven.

Defending against Brazilian Jiu Jitsu

 
Disclaimer: This article Defending against Brazilian Jiu Jitsu is not an attack on BJJ. Just like talking about defending against punches is not an attack on people with fists. Truth is, like any system, BJJ has skilled honorable practitioners. It also has just as skilled, assholes. Such is the way with anything on planet earth. Let’s not get emotional and broken hearted.

Thank you for taking time to read Defending against Brazilian Jiu Jitsu.

Train hard, stay safe, be happy.
GM Dave.

Dave Degrouchie

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Self Defense from Lies in a world lacking values!

Self Defense from Lies

Self Defense from Lies in a world lacking values. And I am being KIND. But that may stop soon! I know I am sick of this BS. Personally I believe we are at war, and it is an information war. 

I wrote an article on this and Linkedin banned my account. But it is no loss!

A psychological operation designed to wake the masses up to the corruption that has been running the world for centuries.

Why do I say this?

For one reason because the threats of the BAD players, while causing people much stress have not come to light. And they will not either! This is because the operation has worked, and the majority are awake. AND like myself, most people will NOT COMPLY to their demands. PERIOD. 

Self Defense from Lies

How does this apply or matter to the martial arts world? Simply, it has become consumed by things that do not matter. Like the endless weekend Hall of Fame awards, and of course SPORT. 

Recently I saw a view videos circulating of street attacks. One woman in the USA, Chicago, walking along a fence. A young man comes up from behind beside her, jumps and punches her in the side of the face knocking her down.

His friends come and they beat her half to death. I did not follow the story and I do not know if she is till alive or not.

Another in Philadelphia of a man and his son attacked by a gang. So, what does this have to do with Self Defense from Lies? Because many, most martial artists today believe that MMA, or UFC etc is the real thing. And that I am a touch guy attitude will GET YOU DEAD on the streets.

Why do I say this?

Because it has always been true. Give me the greatest ring fighter alive today and I will pick his fight, and he will DIE. When I was growing up there were many tough guys, and the majority are retired to the cemetery today. 

Live the the sword, die by the sword. Believe their lies, die from their lies.

Self Defense from Lies

I am a man of peace. In truth if you believe the lies of the western culture, I am an OLD man. More propaganda!

Now could these attacks have been prevented? Perhaps, but perhaps not. But one thing I can tell you is these victims were not prepared for what happened. They existed in a fake world, not aware of the surroundings, or the potential for violence in this corrupt, lying, evil world.

And that , like the MMA ring fighter, is living reactionary, in a world that requires you to be prepared. Self Defense from Lies is an understanding.

Self Defense from Lies in Conclusion

Self Defense from Lies in Conclusion

I see it all the time. The martial arts egos pretending the can handle anything. When in truth they are indoctrinated into systems designed for failure. 

Because the dystopian powers that be allow commercial martial arts to exist because most of it, not all, are impotent. 

Now I am not saying sport, AKA a game, does not have a place. But it is foolish to believe it is anything but sport.

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Martial Arts Training is like Language Learning. How to succeed!

Martial Arts Training is like Language Learning

Martial Arts Training is like Language Learning. Many, many people dabble in the martial arts. I have been training now for almost 40 years and of the people I began with basically they are all gone. Some teach still, one or two, but that is to make a buck. Nothing wrong with that. But they do not continue to learn. And they have very strong prejudices about the arts. Comments like KATA is waste of time because it does not work on the street.And they say this while training ring fighters.

Martial Arts Training is like Language Learning.

Very seriously for over a year now I have been focusing on being bilingual. Learning, and mastering an ancient romance language called Romanian. And it is based on a combination of Latin and Slovak languages. It dates back 1800 years. Much farther then 99% of the martial arts taught today. Very few are as old as they claim.


Martial Arts Training is like Language Learning.


Martial Arts Training is like Language Learning therefore I must:
  1. Learn the alphabet and words. Without learning the vocabulary I cannot move forward. Romanian is has a 32 letter alphabet, English 26 letters. In the martial arts this is the foundation, strikes, blocks, kicks etc.
  2. Grammar. Without grammar when you try to speak you look like a moron. Romanian's are very forgiving of mistakes and are always willing to help. I am not so kind when it comes to native speakers of English. Learn the language you speak. In the martial arts learn the KATA. This is the grammar of the martial arts! Without it YOU WILL FAIL eventually. 
  3. Reading. You have to learn to read the language. This is Kumite. The issues is there are about 34 different types of Kumite and martial artist learn and train with ONE or TWO. Then they think they have arrived. It will be years before I can read a quantum physics text book in Romanian. But since I have done this in English it isgoal!
  4. Writing. Writing in Romanian is a MUST for success. Both printed and something no longer taught in the failed western culture educational systems, cursive writing. And today you can add keyboarding to this. In the martial arts this is WAZA.
  5. Speaking. This is usually the reason people wants to learn a language. In order to communicate with others. And this is a process. In the martial arts this is Bunkai. Many students and teachers mistake Bunkai for being Kata interpretation. But that is ONLY one small aspect of it. Bunkai is communication of what you are doing.You cannot have Bunkai alone.
  6. Application: This is where the rubber hits the road. Application is NOT me talking with my Romanian wife. It is me, alone in the city getting things done when she is not there to back me up. In the martial arts application IS NOT the ring. That is a GAME. Application is when the knife comes out and you survive what is happening. Thinking that related to ANY sportis FOOLISH PERIOD.

Can you see a connection? Martial Arts Training is like Language Learning? if you cut something out, you will not succeed!

Martial Arts Training is like Language Learning in Conclusion

Martial Arts Training is like Language Learning in Conclusion

But to master this beautiful language there are things I must do! This is because Martial Arts Training is like Language Learning.

As Hanshi Juchnik said to me in a phone conversion. Martial Arts is a life long study, not a belt rank. And a TRUE student wants to learn it all! I am a martial arts student. 

To me since Kosho is a study not a style, and the arts are a life path, learning Romanian is an extension of my Kosho training. And Martial Arts Training is like Language Learning!

I need it to survive and thrive in this country. People need the martial arts to survive the streets. You pray you never need it, but you are prepared if you do.

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